I have 12 yr old and a 15 yr old kids. Just me and my daily talking and all , it has surprised me a lot when they call me out on things and tell me stuff is offensive and I sound like a racist cracker
When they explain to me something is offensive I am surprised. I have been learning at my ripe ol age that yea-- it doesnt matter if I think it is offensive or not, maybe it wasnt back in the 70s or 80s but time has changed and so should I
Maybe consider the others feelings